Managing Your Personal Online Presence BEFORE You Start Camming

Okay, so you have read up on camming, have gathered your toys, outfits and watched a bunch of Youtube videos on makeup/lighting, etc and may even be getting ready to sign up for a site… BUT HOLD UP SISTER!

You need to always keep in mind that not all of these guys are here for a quick jerk off or some attention and that some of them may actually be batshit crazy enough to try to FIND YOU?! IRL?!

What have you done to manage your PERSONAL online presence? Have you done anything to make it harder for these guys to access your personal information/profiles?

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With new technologies coming out constantly it makes it easier and easier for scary dudes to find you! Face recognition software is easy to get and makes it insanely easy to find people just from a photo!

You need to think long, hard and deep (PUN!) about how easy or hard you are to find online. Or, how easy/hard you want it to be for others to actually find you!

Me personally, I deleted EVERY SINGLE ONE of my online profiles. All of them! I found profiles I had that I forgot even existed, deleted all of my photos first and THEN deleted the profile. You may not wish to be that extreme about it, but it is what I felt most comfortable doing.

I actually had a member in my early days use face recognition to find me. He found my full name and knew where I lived – then he posted it publicly in my chat room with about 300 guests in there! Needless to say my home is surrounded with cameras, he was reported to the site and I now have a small arsenal in my home. DO NOT FUCK AROUND WITH THIS LADIES!

ALWAYS protect yourself – ALWAYS! Even and ESPECIALLY when you get a whale that is somewhat unstable and becomes jealous and controlling as well as is CONSTANTLY digging for personal information. Don’t think for one second that if you just reject them they will walk away easy. It may be the case but DON’T TAKE THE RISK!

Showing Appreciation For Tips

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Before I started camming I would go into model’s rooms as a guest to experience things from the member’s side as well as try to learn the difference between a good camgirl and a bad camgirl. I wanted to learn everything I could!

I found a stunning model who looked bored and was playing on her phone. I felt bad for her and tipped her a few times and she just looked up at me, glared at the camera and looked back at her phone. I was completely gobsmacked. Keep in mind I had not started camming yet and was broke so that money was hard to let go of. That experience in itself taught me a lot.

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I started visiting other models rooms and began tipping less off of looks and more off of personality. That is when I hit the jackpot with appreciative models, and in turn I learned a lot from them! I found a wonderful mature model with a great attitude that I respected and happened into her room one day when she was being trolled and harassed and I tipped her $10. She was so appreciative it almost made me cry.

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ALWAYS say thank you, ALWAYS! No matter what size the tip. Positive reinforcement is good sales as well as good human behavior. Reward the positive and they will want to do it more! These guys need to feel they are receiving some sort of reward for their effort. You never know if the member is broke as fuck and that $1 tip he gave you is hard for him to do but he likes you enough to do it anyway.

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Some guys may tip you small just to test the waters and see if you say thank you first. Make sure you aren’t some entitled spoiled brat. Some guys like that hustle but more often than not they want to see how you react.

You have to remember, not all of these guys are whales. Some of them are just average Joe’s busting their asses to survive and want to spoil a pretty woman, even if spoiling for them is $5 here and there. It does add up! I treat my less generous members with the same courtesy and interactions that I give my whales. You may lose the whales over time (they always end up coming and going – PUN!) but usually the guys that visit you frequently and tip a bit here and there usually stick around for the long haul and there may be a day where the guy that spends less comes in and surprises you and saves your ass.

He may just be cheap – being able to see that comes with time, the cheap one’s all kind of have the same M.O.. I thank them regardless because they didn’t have to tip me a fucking dime, but they did 🙂 I even thank the guys that try to tip $1 to see boobs. I tell them they need to tip more for that, say thank you and then they usually oblige me by tipping the full amount or they stfu and leave.

I’ve had a member that rarely tipped, and when he did it was a few bucks a day and then he came riding into my room with $300 and dropped it on me in 10 minutes. He still does this twice a week for about 2 months now! He said he likes to spoil me because he knows I APPRECIATE it and don’t act like a spoiled brat! Sometimes being nice to the “cheap” guys can pay off…….

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Moral of the story – ALWAYS SAY THANK YOU! Oh, and by the way – THANK YOU for reading my blog!! *kisses*

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A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 2 – SEX

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Welcome to part 2 of the spouse perspective posts about what it is like to be in a relationship with a cammodel. This post dives into the topic of sex. Camming WILL impact your sex life in ways you may not expect and it’s important that your partner is understanding and sympathetic to what you do for a living and how this will affect your sex drive!

Part 2 – SEX

Alright, in the first post I wrote, I talked about some of the simple things you will come to learn if your significant other becomes a cam model. Here I will talk about how this field may or may not affect your personal sex life with said lover.

Right off the bat, sooner or later, your sex life will be affected by being with a cam model. The sex will slow down. Learn to embrace it and accept it. Let’s put the shoes on the other foot for a second. Imagine turning on porn in the morning, whipping out your dick and beating it furiously for the next 6-8 hours with minimal breaks. Now, imagine your wife coming home and mounting you like riding bareback on a horse. Needless to say, your urge for actual sex probably dipped a little that day. You are probably going to be sore and sexually drained. Mentally and physically. Imagine doing this for 5 or 6 days a week. Get the picture?

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It’s like this, if you mowed yards for a living, would you want to come home and mow yours every night as well? Probably not. So if your spouse is thinking about becoming a cam model, this is something you both must be prepared for.

My wife and I are a 4 or 5 times a week couple. Now, with her camming, we have to plan out times for sex more than we ever did. Spontaneity doesn’t exist for us anymore. We are a 1 or 2 times a week couple at the moment. Sure, I’d love to have more sex with her, but I understand the nature of the game. I am completely at ease with it. That is why, again, trust and communication are vital in this area. The two of you must communicate with each other about how this is affecting the both of you. Take time for each other no matter what. Yes, you have to plan out your sex too. Sure, there is still a little spontaneity, but it is sparse.

I can tell you that if you do start to get a little sexually frustrated as a partner to a cam model, you mustn’t hold it in and then jump all over her/him about why you’re not having sex when all he/she does is have cyber sex with strangers all day. It’s not a good approach.

You must openly communicate with each other at all times about when your “you” time is appropriate for the both of you. It’s just something you must learn to accept when thinking about taking this path. Once you do that, you will then begin to realize that your partner isn’t ditching you for random dong and pussy talk all day. She’s just doing a job that pays the bills. When your partner is with you intimately, it is more personal. More involved. And yes, your cam working partner does have to be able to shut off the camming and turn on the real world first.

Camming isn’t a straight parallel line for your cam model partner. My wife can’t just go from a 45 minute private that has her dressed like a secretary that is fucking her boss in a fantasy world, to turning off the computer and pouncing on me in the next room, in the real world. There must be time for a separation from fantasy to reality. You must come to understand this as well and be patient.

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It’s like watching a murderous and gory horror flick and in the middle of it being hit up for sex. Chances are you’ll need a few minutes to get your head back in the game so you can perform at a peak level. Yes, your spouse is talking sex all day, in a fantasy realm that he or she views as a job, but you can’t just come crashing into the cam room with a hard-on and mount her just because she is in the sex industry and you think she’s in the mood. It doesn’t work like that. Your partner must have a little time to separate business from pleasure first. Even though it is in the same field.

Don’t get me wrong, every once in awhile, she’ll have a steamy private that fires her up. It is rare, but it does happen. Then, that’s when some of that spontaneous sex occurs. Honestly, I love when that happens. I look at it as some other dude just paid to have my wife fired up and I reap all the benefits.

That’s the way you must mentally change in order for life with a cam model to flow more smoothly. Turn what your spouse does into a positive for the both of you on your end. Let them talk about their day, let them share. Hell, use some of that as foreplay when the two of you have your time together if that gets the blood flowing. Whatever. Again, if you can take some of this advice I’m sharing with you to heart, it will lead to you having a very harmonious relationship with your camming spouse. Not only that, the money he or she makes from it will be that little cherry on the top. Just some things to think about.

I will be back to talk about more of what to expect if you have a lover who is thinking of camming. Until part 3, take care and have fun!

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How To Avoid UTI’s or Bladder Infections

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One (another!) thing that became new to me once I started camming was Urinary Tract Infections (aka. UTI’s or Bladder Infections). I had never had one before and I didn’t start getting them until I was about a year into camming. I’m a very clean camgirl, which helps, but I have had to basically go OCD on being clean(er) in order to further prevent any more flare ups. Here is what I do to keep my lady bits happy and try to avoid this occurring again:

    • WASH YOUR TOYS!  Every time you use them! For my non-electronic toys I use a diluted (with bottled water) version of Dr. Bronner’s Unscented Castile soap in a spray bottle to wash my toys (under HOT running water!) and then dry them thoroughly with a CLEAN towel. For my electronic toys I use a clean, dry washcloth and toy cleaner spray.
  • PEE AFTER EVERY PRIVATE!  I’m serious! Anytime your stick anything in your vagina or even rub it GO PEE as soon as you can! This will help flush out any bacteria that has gotten into your urethra/urinary tract. Do not hold your bladder for too long – even if you have to log out of Free Chat to do so.No UTI! Avoiding UTI, camgirl, camming
  • DRINK LOTS OF WATER!  I find myself constantly in a conundrum with this one. I’m trying to avoid peeing so I can stay on cam longer but if I don’t drink enough water I end up with a UTI – Grrrrrrr…. I’ve started a schedule to make sure I drink what I need to: 1 bottle first thing when I get up – 1 bottle about 20 minutes before I log off for lunch (1-2 hour break)- 1 bottle 20 minutes before I log off for dinner (1-2 hour break) and then I sip 1 bottle during my night shift so I’m not up all night peeing 🙂 drink water, pee, uti, camgirl
  • CRANBERRY /URINARY SUPPLEMENTS & JUICE: Take a cranberry/urinary health supplement and drink a bottle of cranberry juice before bed. AZO has a wonderful line of urinary related supplements that are absolutely AH_MAZING!
  • PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT IS IN YOUR LUBE! You may very well be using something that is not good for your body or that your skin is sensitive to! Try different lubes to see which are not as irritating to your sensitive girly bits 🙂 Lube reviews are cumming soon! A few of my favorites are below!

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What To Wear on Cam? Wear what works for YOU!

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One of the best things you can do for yourself as a cam model is to just be you If you are a newbie, I know you have been nosing around the sites, watching models and trying to see how this all works. I did the same thing. Obsessively taking mental notes on what the model’s were wearing, what their rooms looked like and how they conducted themselves. If you are a seasoned veteran you are either in there to see if the site is having tech issues, spying on your haters or looking to see what the other models are wearing (I’m guilty still!).

During your research you may notice there are 2 types that stand out the most:
  1. Models with fancy looking rooms wearing fancy lingerie.
  2. Models with normal looking rooms wearing panties and a bra or t-shirt/tank top.

These models all have their own hustle and are doing what works for them. I’m here to encourage you to do what works for you! You may think you will attract bigger spenders with all of the fancy lingerie and expensive heels but I want to let you know that this is not always the truth. Yes, some members prefer that type of model, but you may be surprised at how many of them don’t.

I’m more like #2. Occasionally I’ll wear something fancy, but I NEVER wear heels. Okay, I did once and took them off after 10 minutes. Oddly enough I do best in a tank top and panties, and the occasional nice bra with matching panties set.

When I started out I was trying so hard to be like model number 1 but it just didn’t fit my personality. So much so that a few members pointed it out. The lingerie doesn’t match the girl – LOL! Don’t get me wrong, I will whip out the occasional show stopper lingerie set with garters and shit and my members enjoy it but then I go right back to being me 🙂 No joke, my top 3 highest earning days have been with shitty hair, a tank top or t shirt and panties (I keep those sexy though!).

My main point with this post is to encourage you to do YOU! If you are like model #1 – DO IT! If you are more like model #2 – DO IT! If you are nothing like either of those and are artsy, crass, into cosplay, nerdy, ghetto, laid back AF, whatever –  then do it! JUST DO YOU! You will be somebody’s flavor!Be Yourself, camgirl, wear, model

If you aren’t sure what your style is, try a few and see which one you feel more comfortable with! Your earnings and enjoyment of your shift will tell you everything!

Camming is not just surface appearances! It goes deeper than that! Camming is confidence and you being comfortable with yourself and comfortable with what you are doing. THAT is what makes the money! These guys can sniff out fake and awkward like a shark smelling blood. Don’t cheat yourself by putting up a front!

 

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UTI’s & Camming – Symptoms and Cheap Treatment

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First of all, I am NOT a doctor and am not providing medical advice. I am merely providing you with my experience and perspective on the subject of UTI’s in relation to camming. I have never, ever prior to camming had a UTI. EVER. I have one right now – hooray! Perfect time to blog about this!

Not all cam girls will get UTI’s (Urinary Tract Infections), it just depends on your body and how your body reacts to so much touching, groping, penetration, etc…It’s not always about cleanliness even though it is VERY important to help avoid getting a UTI. More on this  in another post.

It started out with a severe burning feeling upon urination after a long cam day. That sensation wasn’t totally out of the ordinary as I had experienced it pretty frequently after an intense session or toy heavy cam day.

Enter the next morning when I started to pee. It was awful. This time was fucking excruciating – like peeing razor blades or Tabasco sauce. I’m not exaggerating. I seriously started to cry. Then I looked into the toilet and saw a LOT of blood. My period was 2 weeks away but being curious I stuck my finger in my vagina to check anyway. Nothing. Clean as a whistle. Shit. Enter Google.

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I had all of the symptoms of a UTI.

  • Pain upon urination
  • Frequent urination
  • Cloudy urine
  • Foul smelling urine (this is worse than the first pee of the day smell – ugh.)
  • Lower back/abdominal pain. (Dull, consistent cramping with the occasional sharp jab thrown in for good measure – at least for me.)
  • Fever/Chills (This is where I know I let it go too far….)

I figured I could use the “pee tablets” that turned your pee an intensely weird shade of orange and STAINS everything it comes in contact with to get through the day. Having previously used them before multiple times before bed after a busy cam day so I figured this would help. I also took cranberry tablets – AZO products are the BOMB BTW!) and pounded cranberry juice while still being dumb enough to pound my pussy on cam because it was the end of the pay period.

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The next day nothing had changed, it had only worsened. More blood, more pain, and a fever that I couldn’t put on a smiling face and cam through. It was so bad the thought of putting anything near my vagina made me homicidal.

Great. Fuck. So I took the day off and tried the AZO Urinary Pain Relief Tablets. These do work if you have MILD symptoms but if you are full blown fucked up like I was YOU HAVE TO SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION! This has the potential to travel to your kidneys and fuck you up (dialysis/death, etc….) so TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!

I was looking for home remedies to treat this as I think paying $120 to talk to a doctor for 30 seconds so he can write me a script for antibiotics is ludicrous. (AGAIN – I was STUPID and should not have kept putting this off!) While looking up home remedies I stumbled across https://www.mdproactive.com OMFG! Thank you!

I signed up and basically paid $39.95, waited for about 45 minutes to talk to a doctor (they call you!) about my symptoms. He then called in an antibiotic prescription (Cost was $4) to my local pharmacy and BAM. After about 2 days on the antibiotic I was all good again.

 

 

A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 1 – Trust & Communication

Okay ladies (and curious men), I brought my husband in to do a guest blog post for us. I thought it would be really nice to bring into view how being a camgirl MAY (everyone’s situation is different!) affect your partner and your relationship with your partner from their perspective.

This is HIS perspective and we have a very unique relationship which allows for us to enjoy the fruits of my (and his!) open mindedness and willingness to share intimate parts of myself with others to help secure a good future for the both of us moving forward.

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Part 1 

Trust

So, your wife, and or girlfriend, wants to be a cam model, eh?

Well, it’s not a bad deal at all…if you as a spouse are prepared for it.
My wife is a cam model. I know what you’re thinking; how can I let thousands of men and women look at my wife in the most intimate of ways? It’s easy…trust. But, there are some things you should know about being a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend of someone in this industry.
First off, if you are the type of partner that has to check your partners phone, emails, letters from home, whatever, then this is not something that is going to sit well with you and you should make your feelings known. Basically, if you’re not okay with thousands of people seeing your partner buck naked with dildos and lube flying all around the room right from the get-go, it’s not going to get better for you or your feelings about it.
If you are at ease right from the start but only have a little hesitance about how all this works (this is normal), you’re probably going to be just fine with your spouse bouncing on fake dong’s all day for cash. If you can be at ease, which I am, about the love of your life sharing herself with the rest of the world, it can be quite the lucrative adventure for the both of you. It just requires you to get out of your own way and let the money come rolling in. Let’s put it this way. I’m married to a top cam model. We have a bad month if she, say, makes 6 grand for that month of work.
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When she first started doing camming, I was curious as to how this worked and what could be made income wise from it. I was also worried about her safety as well. So when my wife first started this whole thing, I used to sit in the room with her just out of cameras view, sipping on a cold beer while I heard thousands of men carry on a conversation about how bad they wanted to fuck her. I watched her do what she does with me privately on a more amplified level of display. I used to laugh to myself, and with her, about how if that guy that just took her private only knew that her husband was sitting behind the laptop flipping through a magazine while drinking a beer.
After awhile, and after I knew how careful my wife is with our safety earning an income in this field, as well as after I realized how this all worked, I quit going into the room with her. Now the only clue for me to know that she is having a good income day is when I hear moaning and movement coming out of her cam room every five seconds. It’s the sweet sound of the savings account growing a little fatter.
As I mentioned above, trust is the key foundation, just like any relationship for any way of life is, that the two of you must have before venturing into this endeavor. Trust me when I say that your camming partner will see better looking options while camming than you. You must learn to accept that.
She will get hundreds of offers to meet up or even get paid thousands of dollars to just hang out with other men. You have to trust your partner to have her, and your, best interests at heart when these offers are made to her. IT WILL HAPPEN. My wife doesn’t meet any of these men or women. Most cam models do not either. Hopefully, your partner isn’t one of the few that take it outside of the camming world behind your back. That’s why rock sold trust is key here.
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Communication

My wife and I have very good communication. That in itself creates more trust. She will tell me about every offer that she gets to meet, which guys and girls ACTUALLY turn her on (Yes fella’s, most of you couldn’t turn on a light switch. Remember, my wife gets paid to tell you that you’re a sex God), she tells me about the mild and disgusting requests she gets, and so on. She doesn’t hold back when she starts to tell me about her day.

Just so you know, I do not ask. I do not brow beat her about anything. My wife freely talks about her day just like most of us do that work in office’s or wherever. My wife camming and her talking about her day doing it have become so normal to me now that it’s no different if she was a plumber or something. You too will get that way if you have trust, real trust, between the two of you.

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As I mentioned above, again, how can my wife and I allow her to be so exposed to people in the most intimate of ways? Besides trust, the first time my wife cammed it was a Sunday Afternoon. The first hour she cammed, she made one hundred and fifty bucks. This is when I started to notice that this was a legitimate way to earn an income. A damn good one too. I just had to step aside and let her do her thing. When I get home from work each day, my wife out earns me, on shorter shifts, usually 3-4 to 1. All it took was for us to trust one another and the rest has been taking care of itself ever since.
I will have more parts to discuss on this topic coming soon. Like how it affects your sex life and social life, along with some other things that you should be aware of before getting involved in this career path as a partner. Until next time!
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I hope you enjoyed reading my husbands perspective! I know I did but I’m biased LOL! I look forward to his other posts 🙂
It’s very important to provide an outside perspective because camming does and will effect your relationships. You may think going into camming that it shouldn’t have much of an impact but it does. I agree with him 100% about trust and good communication being essential. Those traits are essential to every relationship, however need to be fully present and consistent moreso when a couple has a partner that is a camgirl/cam model (or any type of sex worker!)!

 

Hair Extensions – My Experience with Microlink Strand Style

When I started camming I had about bra length hair. Very thin and very fragile. I had always hated my thin fragile hair and wanted to try hair extensions but never had the guts (I was afraid I would be judged because of them – women can be harsh!), a reason to or the means. Once camming started to really take off for me I decided fuck it, why not. I have nothing to lose (except a few hundred dollars) and if I hated them, I would just remove them. The constant blowdrying, brushing, and curling of my natural hair started causing a LOT of damage and I felt like if I let things keep going the way they were I would have to start cutting it off incrementally due to damage anyway.

My first experience with hair extensions was an impromptu decision to go into Sally Beauty and “see what they had” – AKA, I come out broke with a ton of beauty supplies that will take me fucking YEARS to go through (I have a bad habit with that store, they need an SBS Anonymous group). I bought 2 packs of the Satin Strands iTip extensions in 22″ length, a package of their  (waaayy too small for their iTips) micro links and this hook like tool. I used a pair of pliers from around the house to crimp the beads down onto the tip of the extension.


I spent 6 hours of my Thanksgiving Day installing the mother fuckers….. UGH! 

I have to admit – even though I did a shitty job the first time, and it was obvious I was wearing poorly installed extensions I noticed an increase in my income almost right away. It wasn’t crazy big but it was noticeable and I started getting compliments on my hair.

I decided to spend some cash and buy twice as many of the Satin Strands extensions and then have them professionally installed. HUGE mistake! I paid almost $400 for the install at a “professional – LOL” salon and $200+ for the hair and thennnnn….. My hair looked great until I started to itch like crazy and figured out what was up. The stylist apparently didn’t sanitize her tools and gave me fucking lice. Once I removed the extensions I was able to see how much of my hair she had ripped out while installing them. I went from bra strap length hair to not even shoulder length almost GONE hair. I was practically bald, I’m not kidding 🙁 After crying for HOURS about this and $600+ down the drain I had to just figure out how to do it by myself.

I decided I needed to find thicker strands that blended together beautifully and find hair that held up well to washing, blow drying and styling that would hopefully be easier to install. After spending (no joke!) a few HOURS on Amazon I ran across these! ZOMG! When they came in and I opened the package I was INSTANTLY in LOVE! They were 3 times thicker than the Satin Strands and were thick all the way to the bottom! They were CHEAPER, AND they matched my hair color almost perfectly! Hooray!

 

Installation was super easy (took me 3 hours for a whole head) with these new extensions, a good tool and the correct size of micro links. The hair looked more natural, felt stronger and held up better than the Satin Strands hair. They were easy to maintain and the glue on the tip wore out before the hair did! Awesome! I only had to move them up every 3-4 weeks and they looked great! A full reinstall was needed every 6-8 weeks but ONLY because the glue on the itip would get gummy, the hair was still in phenomenal condition.

So, basically I was able to save HUNDREDS of dollars a month by figuring out how to do this myself. The process definitely required a lot of patience but it paid off in the end 🙂

Self Care As A Cam Model – Recognizing Burnout

It’s very easy to get burnt out as a cam model. I’m actually writing this for you while in a deep state of burnout. Thankfully I am on my period so I’m getting a break from the source. This is the only time in my life where I have actually been HAPPY to get my period! Yay! No makeup, dirty hair, sweats and nobody demanding anything of me – it’s the most blissful time of the month. LOL!

The first question you may ask yourself is “Why is she still doing this if she’s so burnt out?”. Easy answer. The fucking money. When you start earning large amounts of money and set financial goals (which you must do to get the most out of this job!) you don’t really have a choice. You have to go online. BUT you have to learn to be more gentle with yourself during burnout so I use a different approach to camming when I’m burnt out. More on that in another post 🙂

Signs of Burnout:

  • Easily irritated.
  • Snapping at guests/members quickly when you see the same bullshit game trying to be played. I prefer to kindly tell them to fuck off instead of lashing out at them to toss their “dick into a blender cheap mother fucker”. BUT when the burnout bitch is in full effect……
  • Dreading going online with a dread similar to walking The Green Mile. Every little thing is a distraction before you finally login. Chipped polish, cats need water, hair isn’t perfect, the fridge needs to be cleaned out and maybe I’ll go detail the car because I haven’t washed it in 9 months because I’ve been online 14 hours a day…… Justifying anything else that needs to get done because you would rather just not today.
  • Sitting online quietly picking at your nails or fucking with your phone/music when you are normally pretty active and engaging. Frequent, deep sighs included.
  • Depression. I’m not kidding. Camming will stop being fun. You will sleep a lot more, sleep in late, blow off shifts to go to bed early. Every mean/douchebag/dickhead comment will cut you to your core instead of rolling off you like it usually does. Your give a damn will be non-existent.
  • You get new outfits or toys/hair done/tan/manicure etc. and you just don’t care – it doesn’t perk you up the way it used to. Doing your makeup becomes a chore and you would much rather just chill with your dirty hair in a pair of yoga pants watching a documentary on sliced bread then hear another “ur so beautiful bb” “can I see your ass/pussy/tits/feet before I take you private bb?” “want to meet and fuck me bb?”, etc…
  • Did you twitch just seeing BB – yeah, ur fucked LOL.
  • You will start wishing the guys would hurry up, cum and STFU even though you are in paid chat and are making money because you are that sick of them.You dream of some random guy just coming in, tipping you a shitload of tokens/gold and GTFO without saying a word so you can take some time off….
  • You start considering going back to your day job. You fantasize about a cubicle farm and not having to touch your pussy for 6 months……

Rest easy beautiful and REMEMBER to take time for yourself. You have to. Your hustle will go to shit if you don’t and you will find your income and placement will suffer. Yes, you may lose some cash but you will gain it back when you come back refreshed, happy and horny again! I promise! Your custies WILL miss you and they WILL come back and they will SPEND on you because of it. These guys can smell burnout like sharks smelling blood. Take care of you first so that you can take care of them…. mmmmm-kay?

How To Make Really Good Money As A Camgirl!

Prior to starting camming, I did a metric fuckton of research! I read blog posts, joined forums, watched videos and documentaries and I hung out in cam models chat rooms. I learned so much from these other models and was able to utilize their tips, tricks and tactics myself to become more successful!

Thank you so much to you other beautiful woman for showing me the way – you have changed my life – and that is what I am hoping to do for another beautiful girl with enough balls to take this on. Don’t doubt yourself gorgeous – you GOT THIS! I went from making $300-$500 a week to $10K-$14K a MONTH! It is possible!

Here is what I learned from reading, watching, and conversing with other models and what I have learned through application first hand! I remember watching my earnings jump up considerably when I started to apply the following to my camming:

  1. TREAT THIS LIKE A JOB! You MUST be consistent! This is how you earn your cash and how you build a fanbase! Set a schedule and stick to it! Yes, things will come up or you may have a lot of things going on but do your very best to cam at certain times, or a certain amount of hours a day. Things come up, shark week, illness, emergencies – and if they do, make up your time! It’s easiest to do this when you can create some sort of ritual around it.
  2. STAY MOTIVATED! You will have times where the last thing you feel like doing is dealing with freeloaders or shoving something in your pussy. It’s way too easy to not cam because you don’t feel like it. Excuses are like assholes – unless you are severely fatigued/depressed or pissed off plaster on that smile! I’ve had days where on cam was the last place I wanted to be and I threw on a smile and ended up banking! Do whatever it takes to motivate you! Think about those shoes you want, or those debts you are trying to pay off. Think about taking a vacation! Visualize yourself having/doing those things, you will notice your mood instantly changes if you do it right! Whatever gets your mind in the right place and makes you feel ready to play ball (or play with balls! LOL!). Turn on some music that really gets you pumped and dance around, do a shot (just 1 pretty girl – a drunk camgirl is no bueno!), do your makeup extra special or go buy some new panties 🙂

    Get your ass in gear!
  3. BE FRIENDLY! Unless being a bitchy dom is your niche, be friendly! When I first started camming I was terrified but was quickly put at ease by a few wonderful guys who knew how to have a conversation 🙂 Smile! Be sure you have a smile on your face as much as possible! Goof off, tell jokes! HAVE FUN WITH IT! You will make a few friends doing this if you have the right attitude! Nobody likes the stonefaced camgirl that just sits there on her phone and never says a word. Get to know your regular visitors and you may be rewarded handsomely by them 😀 Try to remember details about your guys, it’s a great way to build rapport and loosens their wallets.

    So fucking cute….
  4. BE RESPONSIBLE WITH YOUR MONEY!  Pay your bills goes without saying, BUT always keep in mind that camming can be very unreliable! I have had weeks where I have made $6K and weeks where it was like pulling teeth to make $600. Same placement, same hustle with differing results. You are at the mercy of these men. Let that keep you humble. Pay off your debts and save as much as you can! When you get that first insane payout keep yourself in check. My first mindblowing check was equal to almost 2 months of pay from my previous corporate job and I had made it in 2 weeks! I cried when I saw that cash in my account I was so happy! BUT, the key is, I was responsible with it! I paid down some debt but also made sure to invest some of it back into camming.

    Yeah , don’t fuck this up. It’s important.
  5. BE CONFIDENT! Always be confident! If you hold yourself in high regard (not snobby please!) it will show! Have small boobs? No worries! A lot of men prefer small tits. A little extra weight? So what?! Some men prefer women with a little extra to love! Turn on that cam and know that you are worth every penny they give you! Know that you are beautiful and sexy and they will pick up on that! Confidence is FUCKING SEXY!! Not a confident girl, then fake it until you make it!

    This needs to be you when your cam is on. Every. Single. Time.

I know those 5 things seem really simple to do, and they are! If you put your mind to it and take camming seriously you can make really good money!!

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