A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 2 – SEX

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Welcome to part 2 of the spouse perspective posts about what it is like to be in a relationship with a cammodel. This post dives into the topic of sex. Camming WILL impact your sex life in ways you may not expect and it’s important that your partner is understanding and sympathetic to what you do for a living and how this will affect your sex drive!

Part 2 – SEX

Alright, in the first post I wrote, I talked about some of the simple things you will come to learn if your significant other becomes a cam model. Here I will talk about how this field may or may not affect your personal sex life with said lover.

Right off the bat, sooner or later, your sex life will be affected by being with a cam model. The sex will slow down. Learn to embrace it and accept it. Let’s put the shoes on the other foot for a second. Imagine turning on porn in the morning, whipping out your dick and beating it furiously for the next 6-8 hours with minimal breaks. Now, imagine your wife coming home and mounting you like riding bareback on a horse. Needless to say, your urge for actual sex probably dipped a little that day. You are probably going to be sore and sexually drained. Mentally and physically. Imagine doing this for 5 or 6 days a week. Get the picture?

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It’s like this, if you mowed yards for a living, would you want to come home and mow yours every night as well? Probably not. So if your spouse is thinking about becoming a cam model, this is something you both must be prepared for.

My wife and I are a 4 or 5 times a week couple. Now, with her camming, we have to plan out times for sex more than we ever did. Spontaneity doesn’t exist for us anymore. We are a 1 or 2 times a week couple at the moment. Sure, I’d love to have more sex with her, but I understand the nature of the game. I am completely at ease with it. That is why, again, trust and communication are vital in this area. The two of you must communicate with each other about how this is affecting the both of you. Take time for each other no matter what. Yes, you have to plan out your sex too. Sure, there is still a little spontaneity, but it is sparse.

I can tell you that if you do start to get a little sexually frustrated as a partner to a cam model, you mustn’t hold it in and then jump all over her/him about why you’re not having sex when all he/she does is have cyber sex with strangers all day. It’s not a good approach.

You must openly communicate with each other at all times about when your “you” time is appropriate for the both of you. It’s just something you must learn to accept when thinking about taking this path. Once you do that, you will then begin to realize that your partner isn’t ditching you for random dong and pussy talk all day. She’s just doing a job that pays the bills. When your partner is with you intimately, it is more personal. More involved. And yes, your cam working partner does have to be able to shut off the camming and turn on the real world first.

Camming isn’t a straight parallel line for your cam model partner. My wife can’t just go from a 45 minute private that has her dressed like a secretary that is fucking her boss in a fantasy world, to turning off the computer and pouncing on me in the next room, in the real world. There must be time for a separation from fantasy to reality. You must come to understand this as well and be patient.

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It’s like watching a murderous and gory horror flick and in the middle of it being hit up for sex. Chances are you’ll need a few minutes to get your head back in the game so you can perform at a peak level. Yes, your spouse is talking sex all day, in a fantasy realm that he or she views as a job, but you can’t just come crashing into the cam room with a hard-on and mount her just because she is in the sex industry and you think she’s in the mood. It doesn’t work like that. Your partner must have a little time to separate business from pleasure first. Even though it is in the same field.

Don’t get me wrong, every once in awhile, she’ll have a steamy private that fires her up. It is rare, but it does happen. Then, that’s when some of that spontaneous sex occurs. Honestly, I love when that happens. I look at it as some other dude just paid to have my wife fired up and I reap all the benefits.

That’s the way you must mentally change in order for life with a cam model to flow more smoothly. Turn what your spouse does into a positive for the both of you on your end. Let them talk about their day, let them share. Hell, use some of that as foreplay when the two of you have your time together if that gets the blood flowing. Whatever. Again, if you can take some of this advice I’m sharing with you to heart, it will lead to you having a very harmonious relationship with your camming spouse. Not only that, the money he or she makes from it will be that little cherry on the top. Just some things to think about.

I will be back to talk about more of what to expect if you have a lover who is thinking of camming. Until part 3, take care and have fun!

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UTI’s & Camming – Symptoms and Cheap Treatment

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First of all, I am NOT a doctor and am not providing medical advice. I am merely providing you with my experience and perspective on the subject of UTI’s in relation to camming. I have never, ever prior to camming had a UTI. EVER. I have one right now – hooray! Perfect time to blog about this!

Not all cam girls will get UTI’s (Urinary Tract Infections), it just depends on your body and how your body reacts to so much touching, groping, penetration, etc…It’s not always about cleanliness even though it is VERY important to help avoid getting a UTI. More on this  in another post.

It started out with a severe burning feeling upon urination after a long cam day. That sensation wasn’t totally out of the ordinary as I had experienced it pretty frequently after an intense session or toy heavy cam day.

Enter the next morning when I started to pee. It was awful. This time was fucking excruciating – like peeing razor blades or Tabasco sauce. I’m not exaggerating. I seriously started to cry. Then I looked into the toilet and saw a LOT of blood. My period was 2 weeks away but being curious I stuck my finger in my vagina to check anyway. Nothing. Clean as a whistle. Shit. Enter Google.

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I had all of the symptoms of a UTI.

  • Pain upon urination
  • Frequent urination
  • Cloudy urine
  • Foul smelling urine (this is worse than the first pee of the day smell – ugh.)
  • Lower back/abdominal pain. (Dull, consistent cramping with the occasional sharp jab thrown in for good measure – at least for me.)
  • Fever/Chills (This is where I know I let it go too far….)

I figured I could use the “pee tablets” that turned your pee an intensely weird shade of orange and STAINS everything it comes in contact with to get through the day. Having previously used them before multiple times before bed after a busy cam day so I figured this would help. I also took cranberry tablets – AZO products are the BOMB BTW!) and pounded cranberry juice while still being dumb enough to pound my pussy on cam because it was the end of the pay period.

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The next day nothing had changed, it had only worsened. More blood, more pain, and a fever that I couldn’t put on a smiling face and cam through. It was so bad the thought of putting anything near my vagina made me homicidal.

Great. Fuck. So I took the day off and tried the AZO Urinary Pain Relief Tablets. These do work if you have MILD symptoms but if you are full blown fucked up like I was YOU HAVE TO SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION! This has the potential to travel to your kidneys and fuck you up (dialysis/death, etc….) so TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!

I was looking for home remedies to treat this as I think paying $120 to talk to a doctor for 30 seconds so he can write me a script for antibiotics is ludicrous. (AGAIN – I was STUPID and should not have kept putting this off!) While looking up home remedies I stumbled across https://www.mdproactive.com OMFG! Thank you!

I signed up and basically paid $39.95, waited for about 45 minutes to talk to a doctor (they call you!) about my symptoms. He then called in an antibiotic prescription (Cost was $4) to my local pharmacy and BAM. After about 2 days on the antibiotic I was all good again.

 

 

A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 1 – Trust & Communication

Okay ladies (and curious men), I brought my husband in to do a guest blog post for us. I thought it would be really nice to bring into view how being a camgirl MAY (everyone’s situation is different!) affect your partner and your relationship with your partner from their perspective.

This is HIS perspective and we have a very unique relationship which allows for us to enjoy the fruits of my (and his!) open mindedness and willingness to share intimate parts of myself with others to help secure a good future for the both of us moving forward.

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Part 1 

Trust

So, your wife, and or girlfriend, wants to be a cam model, eh?

Well, it’s not a bad deal at all…if you as a spouse are prepared for it.
My wife is a cam model. I know what you’re thinking; how can I let thousands of men and women look at my wife in the most intimate of ways? It’s easy…trust. But, there are some things you should know about being a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend of someone in this industry.
First off, if you are the type of partner that has to check your partners phone, emails, letters from home, whatever, then this is not something that is going to sit well with you and you should make your feelings known. Basically, if you’re not okay with thousands of people seeing your partner buck naked with dildos and lube flying all around the room right from the get-go, it’s not going to get better for you or your feelings about it.
If you are at ease right from the start but only have a little hesitance about how all this works (this is normal), you’re probably going to be just fine with your spouse bouncing on fake dong’s all day for cash. If you can be at ease, which I am, about the love of your life sharing herself with the rest of the world, it can be quite the lucrative adventure for the both of you. It just requires you to get out of your own way and let the money come rolling in. Let’s put it this way. I’m married to a top cam model. We have a bad month if she, say, makes 6 grand for that month of work.
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When she first started doing camming, I was curious as to how this worked and what could be made income wise from it. I was also worried about her safety as well. So when my wife first started this whole thing, I used to sit in the room with her just out of cameras view, sipping on a cold beer while I heard thousands of men carry on a conversation about how bad they wanted to fuck her. I watched her do what she does with me privately on a more amplified level of display. I used to laugh to myself, and with her, about how if that guy that just took her private only knew that her husband was sitting behind the laptop flipping through a magazine while drinking a beer.
After awhile, and after I knew how careful my wife is with our safety earning an income in this field, as well as after I realized how this all worked, I quit going into the room with her. Now the only clue for me to know that she is having a good income day is when I hear moaning and movement coming out of her cam room every five seconds. It’s the sweet sound of the savings account growing a little fatter.
As I mentioned above, trust is the key foundation, just like any relationship for any way of life is, that the two of you must have before venturing into this endeavor. Trust me when I say that your camming partner will see better looking options while camming than you. You must learn to accept that.
She will get hundreds of offers to meet up or even get paid thousands of dollars to just hang out with other men. You have to trust your partner to have her, and your, best interests at heart when these offers are made to her. IT WILL HAPPEN. My wife doesn’t meet any of these men or women. Most cam models do not either. Hopefully, your partner isn’t one of the few that take it outside of the camming world behind your back. That’s why rock sold trust is key here.
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Communication

My wife and I have very good communication. That in itself creates more trust. She will tell me about every offer that she gets to meet, which guys and girls ACTUALLY turn her on (Yes fella’s, most of you couldn’t turn on a light switch. Remember, my wife gets paid to tell you that you’re a sex God), she tells me about the mild and disgusting requests she gets, and so on. She doesn’t hold back when she starts to tell me about her day.

Just so you know, I do not ask. I do not brow beat her about anything. My wife freely talks about her day just like most of us do that work in office’s or wherever. My wife camming and her talking about her day doing it have become so normal to me now that it’s no different if she was a plumber or something. You too will get that way if you have trust, real trust, between the two of you.

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As I mentioned above, again, how can my wife and I allow her to be so exposed to people in the most intimate of ways? Besides trust, the first time my wife cammed it was a Sunday Afternoon. The first hour she cammed, she made one hundred and fifty bucks. This is when I started to notice that this was a legitimate way to earn an income. A damn good one too. I just had to step aside and let her do her thing. When I get home from work each day, my wife out earns me, on shorter shifts, usually 3-4 to 1. All it took was for us to trust one another and the rest has been taking care of itself ever since.
I will have more parts to discuss on this topic coming soon. Like how it affects your sex life and social life, along with some other things that you should be aware of before getting involved in this career path as a partner. Until next time!
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I hope you enjoyed reading my husbands perspective! I know I did but I’m biased LOL! I look forward to his other posts 🙂
It’s very important to provide an outside perspective because camming does and will effect your relationships. You may think going into camming that it shouldn’t have much of an impact but it does. I agree with him 100% about trust and good communication being essential. Those traits are essential to every relationship, however need to be fully present and consistent moreso when a couple has a partner that is a camgirl/cam model (or any type of sex worker!)!

 

Hair Extensions – My Experience with Microlink Strand Style

When I started camming I had about bra length hair. Very thin and very fragile. I had always hated my thin fragile hair and wanted to try hair extensions but never had the guts (I was afraid I would be judged because of them – women can be harsh!), a reason to or the means. Once camming started to really take off for me I decided fuck it, why not. I have nothing to lose (except a few hundred dollars) and if I hated them, I would just remove them. The constant blowdrying, brushing, and curling of my natural hair started causing a LOT of damage and I felt like if I let things keep going the way they were I would have to start cutting it off incrementally due to damage anyway.

My first experience with hair extensions was an impromptu decision to go into Sally Beauty and “see what they had” – AKA, I come out broke with a ton of beauty supplies that will take me fucking YEARS to go through (I have a bad habit with that store, they need an SBS Anonymous group). I bought 2 packs of the Satin Strands iTip extensions in 22″ length, a package of their  (waaayy too small for their iTips) micro links and this hook like tool. I used a pair of pliers from around the house to crimp the beads down onto the tip of the extension.


I spent 6 hours of my Thanksgiving Day installing the mother fuckers….. UGH! 

I have to admit – even though I did a shitty job the first time, and it was obvious I was wearing poorly installed extensions I noticed an increase in my income almost right away. It wasn’t crazy big but it was noticeable and I started getting compliments on my hair.

I decided to spend some cash and buy twice as many of the Satin Strands extensions and then have them professionally installed. HUGE mistake! I paid almost $400 for the install at a “professional – LOL” salon and $200+ for the hair and thennnnn….. My hair looked great until I started to itch like crazy and figured out what was up. The stylist apparently didn’t sanitize her tools and gave me fucking lice. Once I removed the extensions I was able to see how much of my hair she had ripped out while installing them. I went from bra strap length hair to not even shoulder length almost GONE hair. I was practically bald, I’m not kidding 🙁 After crying for HOURS about this and $600+ down the drain I had to just figure out how to do it by myself.

I decided I needed to find thicker strands that blended together beautifully and find hair that held up well to washing, blow drying and styling that would hopefully be easier to install. After spending (no joke!) a few HOURS on Amazon I ran across these! ZOMG! When they came in and I opened the package I was INSTANTLY in LOVE! They were 3 times thicker than the Satin Strands and were thick all the way to the bottom! They were CHEAPER, AND they matched my hair color almost perfectly! Hooray!

 

Installation was super easy (took me 3 hours for a whole head) with these new extensions, a good tool and the correct size of micro links. The hair looked more natural, felt stronger and held up better than the Satin Strands hair. They were easy to maintain and the glue on the tip wore out before the hair did! Awesome! I only had to move them up every 3-4 weeks and they looked great! A full reinstall was needed every 6-8 weeks but ONLY because the glue on the itip would get gummy, the hair was still in phenomenal condition.

So, basically I was able to save HUNDREDS of dollars a month by figuring out how to do this myself. The process definitely required a lot of patience but it paid off in the end 🙂

5 Things To Think About BEFORE You Start Camming

So, are you ready (or so you think!) to take the plunge into a better financial situation by the means of debauchery and straight up fun huh?! Well strap yourself in hunny, you are in for an adventure! When I was considering camming my mind was constantly spinning with what I would need to wear/toys, how to act, what to do, how to be sure I’m not getting scammed by assholes, etc…. It seems easy enough to plunk down in your bed and turn on your laptop but there is a LOT to it. Straight up, this is a sales job. You are the product and you need to sell yourself. There is far more involved than may meet the eye initially. Safety, being discovered, investment, impact on relationships, and balance are just a few of the things you need to think about.

  1. ALWAYS BE ALERT FOR YOUR SAFETY! First and foremost you must always do what you can to ensure you are SAFE! Remember, hundreds if not thousands of people will be looking at you and listening to you talk in a day. Most of which are harmless, but there is always a risk factor involved here. Keep your safety at the forefront of your mind AT ALL TIMES! For more on this please read my blog post on safety.

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  2. SOMEONE YOU KNOW MAY FIND YOU! Weigh this one VERY heavy in your mind. Yes, sites have geoblocking, etc but you can’t control if Uncle Gary goes on a business trip out of state and happens to stumble across your stream, or finds a video of you on a tube site that some asshole hacker uploaded. You are ALWAYS at risk for someone you know finding you. This is a hard pill to swallow but you need to know deep inside yourself that you don’t give a fuck if someone you know finds you. Everyone you have ever known may potentially stumble upon a video of you with a dildo hanging out of your mouth or worse. Can you deal with that? (Side note: you will get dipshits that come in your room claiming to be your brother/father/etc. Be prepared for that and troll the fuck out of them when they do it – *maniacal laughter* makes for much amusement!) Now that I have you nervous….

    Yep, process it…. The possibility is there.
  3. HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO INVEST? This isn’t just money this is time too! When I first started camming I had a decent laptop, mediocre wifi and that was it. I swiped my credit card (something I don’t do anymore thank you cam gods and generous regulars!) for a $60 webcam, grabbed a few cute pairs of panties/bras I had and a dildo I had used for years, and logged in. Note, be sure you have lube too, lol! As I began to make more money I was able to invest in more outfits, more toys, and an upgraded webcam. Camming is also a massive time investment if you want to really make good money. Most sites have “New Model” status for a certain number of streaming/live hours or a certain number of days. USE THIS TIME WISELY! New model status is your best friend when starting out! You get great exposure and placement which means you will usually have great traffic. Use this to start building your fan base! Camming will give you what you invest into it with your time. Don’t log on much? Expect to eat McDonalds a lot or even end up on food stamps. Run yourself ragged for a few months or more, expect to not bat an eye when you check out with a cart full of groceries and the cashier says some previously obscene number to you and you don’t bat a pretty little fake eyelash about it. When I started camming I worked a full time job and would come home and cam 4-6 hours a night, every night, for 4 months. Now I cam 20-40 hours a week and am quite comfortable 😉

    Yoda knows what’s up 🙂
  4. WILL THIS IMPACT YOUR RELATIONSHIP? This is a HUGE one! Single and plan on staying that way? Shuffle on…. lol…. First of all, if you have a jealous boyfriend/husband you may as well forget about this now. He will be excited by the money at first but his insecurities will eventually come into play and you will have to find another source of income and/or will experience an end to the relationship. You must have a very solid relationship with your partner if you are to cam successfully and remain in said relationship. I am luckily with a partner who is not jealous and is very supportive of my camming. He enjoys that I do this and has no reservations about my camming at all. He trusts me and respects me. I am constantly being offered obscene amounts of money and promises of a better life if I were to leave him but I wouldn’t trade him for all of the money in the world so their attempts are futile! HAHAHA! But, thanks for the cash bro! LMAO! Keep in mind, this is a rarity! Am I saying that camming has not impacted my relationship in some way? No. Camming related issues can arise but if you have a solid relationship you can work through them or around them as a couple.

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  5. BALANCE! You will eventually realize that you HAVE TO balance your time on cam with something else that interests you. It is SO EASY in the beginning to see the potential for what you can make and get caught up in that and run yourself into the ground camming around the clock. Always be sure you can take care of yourself not just financially but mentally and physically as well. Camming seems easy enough but on busy days it can be extremely physically demanding and you will find muscles you didn’t even realize you had, lol. Also, you will wear out mentally (unless you are an extrovert and thrive on human interaction – haha!). These dudes can be draining as fuck and some days are worse than others! Be sure you find a balance between your income, mental/physical health and your relationships. For me this has honestly been the hardest part. Especially when you start trying to build other ways to make money outside of camming with the money you make from camming.

    Um, yeah, been here after a 12 hour shift and the guys stop talking.

Camming is what you make it. Just be sure you are prepared to handle all aspects of it, some of which I am sure I have failed to mention but you will find along the path 🙂

Shady Members & Guests – How To Protect Yourself as a Camgirl

Admittedly, not EVERYONE is batshit crazy. A majority of people are harmless. As a camgirl you need to keep in the back of your mind at all times that some of these dudes are shady as fuck, in many ways. I don’t care how nice he is to you or how much money he spends on you. As far as you are concerned, every single one of them is a stalker/serial killer, etc. Always watch your ass! Your safety and happiness depends on it!

    1. DO NOT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFORMATION! EVER! Again with this, I know. But I feel like I cannot beat it into your head enough. Granted some of you are very smart, and I have no doubts you are smart enough to do this but sometimes it’s easy to get caught up when the money is flowing or you get a hot customer you “click” with. Not even your name!

      Do not give it out – EVER!
    2. DO NOT TELL THEM YOUR ACTUAL LOCATION! Just. Don’t. Do. It. I lie my ass off. I go far enough to give a regional area and that’s it, in private, by typing it (and it’s ALWAYS hundreds if not thousands of miles away!). If you feel you must give them a state that’s fine but make sure it’s not the one you are in. Unless you like having stalkers then be my guest. Cover/hide your windows if possible. If you tell them you are in the east and the sun is still up when it should be dark they will question you about it. Also, you will have to work around weather unfortunately. If you have a massive thunderstorm coming through and the only place in the whole country that is getting weather is in Kansas and you told them you are in California they may call you out. Yes, the crazy ones will go to those kind of lengths to figure out where you are!

      Do NOT Give Out Your Location! EVER!

  1. HIDE ALL EVIDENCE! I leave nothing in my cam room that has my name/address anything on it. Nothing! You never know when you may be in the middle of a hot private or a tip explosion in free chat, on accidentally knock over your cam and everyone in the room can see your electric bill that you just happened to set down until you could get around to mailing it off. Do you buy store brand bottled water and drink it on cam? Peel the damn label off! Did you go to Starbucks before camming, dump that shit into a personal Starbucks cup so they can’t see your name or even worse the drive through label with the date/time and store # on it!

    No personal information in your cam room AT ALL! That is what the rest of the house is for!!
  2. DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR PERSONAL PHONE/EMAIL! The resourceful ones can trace this shit back to you! All they have to do with your phone number is use a reverse lookup search engine and BAM! They could be on your doorstep before you know it! If you would like to offer phone sex/sexting, use an APP like Sextpanther. Sextpanther masks your number and their texts/calls come directly to your phone. It’s the safest way to offer these services. I easily make an extra $200-$600 a month doing this. Their payout percentages are awesome too! If you must use an email for camming, use it only for that purpose and do not provide any traceable personal information when you set up the account! Use Gmail and make your name is something like Phucking Wh0re, date of birth is wrong and provide a different country as your location… You get the drift…

    Use alternate phone numbers and emails to sign up for any site you work on/social media! NOTHING that can be traced back to you!
  3. BE AWARE! AKA – CHECK YO-SELF! Always keep at the front of your mind when you are on cam that you have anywhere from 10 – THOUSANDS of people in your room watching your every move and listening to every word you say! Don’t slip up and give ANY personal information out at ALL! Keep the tv in other rooms turned down so that in case the local news comes on, they can’t hear it! Keep yourself in check at all times! I know it can be easy to get caught up in a great conversation and maybe divulge a little more than you should (I work out at this place, I like to eat at that one place called bleh, I go to this place all the time! etc…blah blah blah..) but always remember how many people are in your room at any given time. A good way for me to keep myself in check is to picture thousands of creepy eyes on me at once. It’s hard to do this sometimes when you are in your own home, in a comfy room and having a great time, but ALWAYS remember this!
    STFU and drink your tea! If they start getting too personal direct the subject back to sex!

    This is how I picture every guy that is talking to me in my chat room or just sitting there silently staring. Keeps my ass in check every damn time.
  4. DO NOT EVER – EVER – EVER OPEN A LINK A MEMBER HAS SENT YOU THROUGH CHAT, OR MESSAGES! Don’t do it, I’m serious! ALSO, do not ever go to a website that they direct you to (unless it’s something safe that you are familiar with like Amazon or Pornhub)! (Him: hey BB, this page has videos of my huge dick – the url is: www.wtfrudoingdumbass.cum – you should look at it!). They can send you to a site that will track your location, or install malware/hacking software onto your computer! Don’t fricking do it. Tell him no or just straight up ban his ass for pulling weird shit.

    Don’t do it! Chances are he may be sending you something harmless or the chances are he is trying to hack your shit. Risk level Defcon 5!
  5. ALWAYS CLOSE YOUR BROADCAST WINDOW/UNPLUG YOUR CAM IF YOU WON’T BE ON FOR MORE THAN 5 MINUTES! There are news stories all over the place regarding cameras on computers being hacked into. In the off chance some psycho douchebag were able to pull this off and you need to call your credit card company and/or have a conversation with your significant other with location details, etc. There ya go. Takes 1 second to do this. Just do it. Make it a part of your routine as much as checking your earnings or cleaning your dildos.

    I know you are doing the COMPLETE opposite of this but this was too damn funny not to post here 🙂
  6. Amazon/FaceTime, Snapchat, etc.. You will get requests for a link to your Amazon Wish List, requests to Facetime and or use messaging apps like Snapchat and Kik. I will of course leave this up to your personal discretion but please do a search regarding compromised personal information in regards to Amazon Wishlists and use your best judgement. I prefer not to use this, however I created a separate Amazon account using my camgirl email (with no personal information linked to it) and only accept gift cards through this account specifically. A lot of men will use this as a way to attempt to gather personal information about you. Facetime, uh, yeah. This one isn’t rocket science….. Snapchat does have a map/locator function so be sure you turn it to “Ghost” mode. You can still use these services, just be smart and vigilant when you do so!                                                                                                                                                                                            I am sure I may have missed something, and there will likely be a part 2 to this post but it’s a great start! Camming is great fun and very enjoyable (and the money is nice too, lol!) but always remember you are taking a risk here and you need to keep yourself safe 🙂

Five Things I Wish I Would Have Understood When I Started Camming

When I decided to start camming I did research. A fuckton of it. A metric shitload of research. I thought of nothing but camming. I furiously devoured blog and forum posts, looked at porn websites and hung out in camgirl rooms.  I was consumed by it. What webcam to buy, what to wear, how to act, what to do when someone finally clicked that button to take me private, how I would get paid. I thought I had a pretty full understanding of camming the first time I hit the “Start Show” button. Needless to say, some things you only learn by doing………

  1. SHADY DUDES!                                                                                                         Protect Yourself! I am NOT kidding here! The first thing you should put into your head when you login is all of these guys are crazy and resourceful as FUCK! This should be on your mind EVERY SINGLE SECOND you are broadcasting! Do NOT give out any personal information at all! I lie my ass off all day. Stay safe! Look at every guy as if he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Most are harmless and just want to jerk off but you never know….. I don’t care how NICE is is or how much money he spends on you – don’t ever give him your information! EVER!

    Chances – Don’t take them!
  2. FREELOADERS                                                                                                                                 Freeloaders will be the bane of your existence while you are camming. I knew to expect them but holy shit I hate them. They are manipulative and/or stupid as fuck. They will try everything they can to get something out of you for free. When I was new I fell for this over and over. Don’t fall for their shit. I promise, you will thank yourself for it later. When any customer on a cam site says “Show me ___ and I will take you private/tip” just know he is absolutely full of shit! I don’t care how much $ he has in his account. I have had men sit in my room with upwards of $1K trying to get free shit. If he doesn’t tip/take you private – do not give him a damn thing. Including your time.

    It’s what they do!
  3. MONEY IS INCONISISTENT!                                                                                              You will start making money. Sometimes even VERY GOOD money. Do not let yourself for one second think one pay period, one day, or even one shift is going to be consistent. I’ve had days where I have logged in for 3 hours, made $5 and then went back in a few hours later and made $600 in an hour and a half. There have been months when I have made $500 and months where I have made $12K. You are fully dependent on these men for your financial survival. This is where you need to be smart! Shit will fuck your schedule up! I promise! Illness, internet going down/out, your damn period, weather, etc….. Don’t ever think because you cam for a few hours one night and made a few hundred or more bucks it will happen again the next time you log in. Save your money as much as you can! Pay off debts and pay your bills ahead if you can! Cover your financial ass!

                       Save that shit!
  4. Chargeback and Refunds!                                                                                    Another little nugget to keep in your pocket. Yes, appreciate the site for being available for you to use, but always be aware you may get “chargebacks” or “refunds”. Tips you have earned/shows you have done will be “refunded” to the user/member. Even though you know damn well that particular customer would not ask for a tip/gift refund because he always spends a lot and tips well and they only “refunded” him a $5 tip out of the $300 he has tipped you over a month….. Um, yeah. Just be sure you understand that this is a part of the industry and every single cam site does this. You will just have to accept it. If you find a cam site that NEVER does this please correct me and send me the link so that I can cam there!

    Seriously, they don’t give a fuck.
  5. BE CONSISTENT!                                                                                                              It is VERY easy when you first start out to just cam your ass off. When I started out and saw the potential cash I could make doing this I would cam 18-20 hour shifts and would do what I could to be in there as much as I could. Sure I started making good money but I burnt myself out FAST! It’s easy to run yourself into the ground because it’s available to you 24 hours a day. It’s just as easy to procrastinate. If you had an amazing shift one day you may want to treat yourself to a day off the next. It’s easy to say “I’ll log in later/tomorrow”. The very best thing you can do with this is treat it like a job. Set yourself a schedule that works for you physically/financially and emotionally. This will come with time and you will figure out what works for you. It took me a good 6 months or so to balance out my schedule to avoid burnout yet bring in what I needed to bring in. Sometimes it will be slow and you will have to hustle an extra shift or 2 to make ends meet but be sure you take very good care of yourself while doing this! This is a JOB and is what is paying your bills, treat it as such and you will be rewarded.

    This will save your ass!

There is so much to learn when you first start out, much of it will be hands on and will come with experience. So set your schedule, watch your ass and save your money. Get your makeup on beautiful girl and go make some cash!

         Make Money SEXTING!