Managing Your Personal Online Presence BEFORE You Start Camming

Okay, so you have read up on camming, have gathered your toys, outfits and watched a bunch of Youtube videos on makeup/lighting, etc and may even be getting ready to sign up for a site… BUT HOLD UP SISTER!

You need to always keep in mind that not all of these guys are here for a quick jerk off or some attention and that some of them may actually be batshit crazy enough to try to FIND YOU?! IRL?!

What have you done to manage your PERSONAL online presence? Have you done anything to make it harder for these guys to access your personal information/profiles?

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With new technologies coming out constantly it makes it easier and easier for scary dudes to find you! Face recognition software is easy to get and makes it insanely easy to find people just from a photo!

You need to think long, hard and deep (PUN!) about how easy or hard you are to find online. Or, how easy/hard you want it to be for others to actually find you!

Me personally, I deleted EVERY SINGLE ONE of my online profiles. All of them! I found profiles I had that I forgot even existed, deleted all of my photos first and THEN deleted the profile. You may not wish to be that extreme about it, but it is what I felt most comfortable doing.

I actually had a member in my early days use face recognition to find me. He found my full name and knew where I lived – then he posted it publicly in my chat room with about 300 guests in there! Needless to say my home is surrounded with cameras, he was reported to the site and I now have a small arsenal in my home. DO NOT FUCK AROUND WITH THIS LADIES!

ALWAYS protect yourself – ALWAYS! Even and ESPECIALLY when you get a whale that is somewhat unstable and becomes jealous and controlling as well as is CONSTANTLY digging for personal information. Don’t think for one second that if you just reject them they will walk away easy. It may be the case but DON’T TAKE THE RISK!

Shady Members & Guests – How To Protect Yourself as a Camgirl

Admittedly, not EVERYONE is batshit crazy. A majority of people are harmless. As a camgirl you need to keep in the back of your mind at all times that some of these dudes are shady as fuck, in many ways. I don’t care how nice he is to you or how much money he spends on you. As far as you are concerned, every single one of them is a stalker/serial killer, etc. Always watch your ass! Your safety and happiness depends on it!

    1. DO NOT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFORMATION! EVER! Again with this, I know. But I feel like I cannot beat it into your head enough. Granted some of you are very smart, and I have no doubts you are smart enough to do this but sometimes it’s easy to get caught up when the money is flowing or you get a hot customer you “click” with. Not even your name!

      Do not give it out – EVER!
    2. DO NOT TELL THEM YOUR ACTUAL LOCATION! Just. Don’t. Do. It. I lie my ass off. I go far enough to give a regional area and that’s it, in private, by typing it (and it’s ALWAYS hundreds if not thousands of miles away!). If you feel you must give them a state that’s fine but make sure it’s not the one you are in. Unless you like having stalkers then be my guest. Cover/hide your windows if possible. If you tell them you are in the east and the sun is still up when it should be dark they will question you about it. Also, you will have to work around weather unfortunately. If you have a massive thunderstorm coming through and the only place in the whole country that is getting weather is in Kansas and you told them you are in California they may call you out. Yes, the crazy ones will go to those kind of lengths to figure out where you are!

      Do NOT Give Out Your Location! EVER!

  1. HIDE ALL EVIDENCE! I leave nothing in my cam room that has my name/address anything on it. Nothing! You never know when you may be in the middle of a hot private or a tip explosion in free chat, on accidentally knock over your cam and everyone in the room can see your electric bill that you just happened to set down until you could get around to mailing it off. Do you buy store brand bottled water and drink it on cam? Peel the damn label off! Did you go to Starbucks before camming, dump that shit into a personal Starbucks cup so they can’t see your name or even worse the drive through label with the date/time and store # on it!

    No personal information in your cam room AT ALL! That is what the rest of the house is for!!
  2. DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR PERSONAL PHONE/EMAIL! The resourceful ones can trace this shit back to you! All they have to do with your phone number is use a reverse lookup search engine and BAM! They could be on your doorstep before you know it! If you would like to offer phone sex/sexting, use an APP like Sextpanther. Sextpanther masks your number and their texts/calls come directly to your phone. It’s the safest way to offer these services. I easily make an extra $200-$600 a month doing this. Their payout percentages are awesome too! If you must use an email for camming, use it only for that purpose and do not provide any traceable personal information when you set up the account! Use Gmail and make your name is something like Phucking Wh0re, date of birth is wrong and provide a different country as your location… You get the drift…

    Use alternate phone numbers and emails to sign up for any site you work on/social media! NOTHING that can be traced back to you!
  3. BE AWARE! AKA – CHECK YO-SELF! Always keep at the front of your mind when you are on cam that you have anywhere from 10 – THOUSANDS of people in your room watching your every move and listening to every word you say! Don’t slip up and give ANY personal information out at ALL! Keep the tv in other rooms turned down so that in case the local news comes on, they can’t hear it! Keep yourself in check at all times! I know it can be easy to get caught up in a great conversation and maybe divulge a little more than you should (I work out at this place, I like to eat at that one place called bleh, I go to this place all the time! etc…blah blah blah..) but always remember how many people are in your room at any given time. A good way for me to keep myself in check is to picture thousands of creepy eyes on me at once. It’s hard to do this sometimes when you are in your own home, in a comfy room and having a great time, but ALWAYS remember this!
    STFU and drink your tea! If they start getting too personal direct the subject back to sex!

    This is how I picture every guy that is talking to me in my chat room or just sitting there silently staring. Keeps my ass in check every damn time.
  4. DO NOT EVER – EVER – EVER OPEN A LINK A MEMBER HAS SENT YOU THROUGH CHAT, OR MESSAGES! Don’t do it, I’m serious! ALSO, do not ever go to a website that they direct you to (unless it’s something safe that you are familiar with like Amazon or Pornhub)! (Him: hey BB, this page has videos of my huge dick – the url is: www.wtfrudoingdumbass.cum – you should look at it!). They can send you to a site that will track your location, or install malware/hacking software onto your computer! Don’t fricking do it. Tell him no or just straight up ban his ass for pulling weird shit.

    Don’t do it! Chances are he may be sending you something harmless or the chances are he is trying to hack your shit. Risk level Defcon 5!
  5. ALWAYS CLOSE YOUR BROADCAST WINDOW/UNPLUG YOUR CAM IF YOU WON’T BE ON FOR MORE THAN 5 MINUTES! There are news stories all over the place regarding cameras on computers being hacked into. In the off chance some psycho douchebag were able to pull this off and you need to call your credit card company and/or have a conversation with your significant other with location details, etc. There ya go. Takes 1 second to do this. Just do it. Make it a part of your routine as much as checking your earnings or cleaning your dildos.

    I know you are doing the COMPLETE opposite of this but this was too damn funny not to post here 🙂
  6. Amazon/FaceTime, Snapchat, etc.. You will get requests for a link to your Amazon Wish List, requests to Facetime and or use messaging apps like Snapchat and Kik. I will of course leave this up to your personal discretion but please do a search regarding compromised personal information in regards to Amazon Wishlists and use your best judgement. I prefer not to use this, however I created a separate Amazon account using my camgirl email (with no personal information linked to it) and only accept gift cards through this account specifically. A lot of men will use this as a way to attempt to gather personal information about you. Facetime, uh, yeah. This one isn’t rocket science….. Snapchat does have a map/locator function so be sure you turn it to “Ghost” mode. You can still use these services, just be smart and vigilant when you do so!                                                                                                                                                                                            I am sure I may have missed something, and there will likely be a part 2 to this post but it’s a great start! Camming is great fun and very enjoyable (and the money is nice too, lol!) but always remember you are taking a risk here and you need to keep yourself safe 🙂

Five Things I Wish I Would Have Understood When I Started Camming

When I decided to start camming I did research. A fuckton of it. A metric shitload of research. I thought of nothing but camming. I furiously devoured blog and forum posts, looked at porn websites and hung out in camgirl rooms.  I was consumed by it. What webcam to buy, what to wear, how to act, what to do when someone finally clicked that button to take me private, how I would get paid. I thought I had a pretty full understanding of camming the first time I hit the “Start Show” button. Needless to say, some things you only learn by doing………

  1. SHADY DUDES!                                                                                                         Protect Yourself! I am NOT kidding here! The first thing you should put into your head when you login is all of these guys are crazy and resourceful as FUCK! This should be on your mind EVERY SINGLE SECOND you are broadcasting! Do NOT give out any personal information at all! I lie my ass off all day. Stay safe! Look at every guy as if he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Most are harmless and just want to jerk off but you never know….. I don’t care how NICE is is or how much money he spends on you – don’t ever give him your information! EVER!

    Chances – Don’t take them!
  2. FREELOADERS                                                                                                                                 Freeloaders will be the bane of your existence while you are camming. I knew to expect them but holy shit I hate them. They are manipulative and/or stupid as fuck. They will try everything they can to get something out of you for free. When I was new I fell for this over and over. Don’t fall for their shit. I promise, you will thank yourself for it later. When any customer on a cam site says “Show me ___ and I will take you private/tip” just know he is absolutely full of shit! I don’t care how much $ he has in his account. I have had men sit in my room with upwards of $1K trying to get free shit. If he doesn’t tip/take you private – do not give him a damn thing. Including your time.

    It’s what they do!
  3. MONEY IS INCONISISTENT!                                                                                              You will start making money. Sometimes even VERY GOOD money. Do not let yourself for one second think one pay period, one day, or even one shift is going to be consistent. I’ve had days where I have logged in for 3 hours, made $5 and then went back in a few hours later and made $600 in an hour and a half. There have been months when I have made $500 and months where I have made $12K. You are fully dependent on these men for your financial survival. This is where you need to be smart! Shit will fuck your schedule up! I promise! Illness, internet going down/out, your damn period, weather, etc….. Don’t ever think because you cam for a few hours one night and made a few hundred or more bucks it will happen again the next time you log in. Save your money as much as you can! Pay off debts and pay your bills ahead if you can! Cover your financial ass!

                       Save that shit!
  4. Chargeback and Refunds!                                                                                    Another little nugget to keep in your pocket. Yes, appreciate the site for being available for you to use, but always be aware you may get “chargebacks” or “refunds”. Tips you have earned/shows you have done will be “refunded” to the user/member. Even though you know damn well that particular customer would not ask for a tip/gift refund because he always spends a lot and tips well and they only “refunded” him a $5 tip out of the $300 he has tipped you over a month….. Um, yeah. Just be sure you understand that this is a part of the industry and every single cam site does this. You will just have to accept it. If you find a cam site that NEVER does this please correct me and send me the link so that I can cam there!

    Seriously, they don’t give a fuck.
  5. BE CONSISTENT!                                                                                                              It is VERY easy when you first start out to just cam your ass off. When I started out and saw the potential cash I could make doing this I would cam 18-20 hour shifts and would do what I could to be in there as much as I could. Sure I started making good money but I burnt myself out FAST! It’s easy to run yourself into the ground because it’s available to you 24 hours a day. It’s just as easy to procrastinate. If you had an amazing shift one day you may want to treat yourself to a day off the next. It’s easy to say “I’ll log in later/tomorrow”. The very best thing you can do with this is treat it like a job. Set yourself a schedule that works for you physically/financially and emotionally. This will come with time and you will figure out what works for you. It took me a good 6 months or so to balance out my schedule to avoid burnout yet bring in what I needed to bring in. Sometimes it will be slow and you will have to hustle an extra shift or 2 to make ends meet but be sure you take very good care of yourself while doing this! This is a JOB and is what is paying your bills, treat it as such and you will be rewarded.

    This will save your ass!

There is so much to learn when you first start out, much of it will be hands on and will come with experience. So set your schedule, watch your ass and save your money. Get your makeup on beautiful girl and go make some cash!

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