Managing Your Personal Online Presence BEFORE You Start Camming

Okay, so you have read up on camming, have gathered your toys, outfits and watched a bunch of Youtube videos on makeup/lighting, etc and may even be getting ready to sign up for a site… BUT HOLD UP SISTER!

You need to always keep in mind that not all of these guys are here for a quick jerk off or some attention and that some of them may actually be batshit crazy enough to try to FIND YOU?! IRL?!

What have you done to manage your PERSONAL online presence? Have you done anything to make it harder for these guys to access your personal information/profiles?

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With new technologies coming out constantly it makes it easier and easier for scary dudes to find you! Face recognition software is easy to get and makes it insanely easy to find people just from a photo!

You need to think long, hard and deep (PUN!) about how easy or hard you are to find online. Or, how easy/hard you want it to be for others to actually find you!

Me personally, I deleted EVERY SINGLE ONE of my online profiles. All of them! I found profiles I had that I forgot even existed, deleted all of my photos first and THEN deleted the profile. You may not wish to be that extreme about it, but it is what I felt most comfortable doing.

I actually had a member in my early days use face recognition to find me. He found my full name and knew where I lived – then he posted it publicly in my chat room with about 300 guests in there! Needless to say my home is surrounded with cameras, he was reported to the site and I now have a small arsenal in my home. DO NOT FUCK AROUND WITH THIS LADIES!

ALWAYS protect yourself – ALWAYS! Even and ESPECIALLY when you get a whale that is somewhat unstable and becomes jealous and controlling as well as is CONSTANTLY digging for personal information. Don’t think for one second that if you just reject them they will walk away easy. It may be the case but DON’T TAKE THE RISK!

Showing Appreciation For Tips

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Before I started camming I would go into model’s rooms as a guest to experience things from the member’s side as well as try to learn the difference between a good camgirl and a bad camgirl. I wanted to learn everything I could!

I found a stunning model who looked bored and was playing on her phone. I felt bad for her and tipped her a few times and she just looked up at me, glared at the camera and looked back at her phone. I was completely gobsmacked. Keep in mind I had not started camming yet and was broke so that money was hard to let go of. That experience in itself taught me a lot.

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I started visiting other models rooms and began tipping less off of looks and more off of personality. That is when I hit the jackpot with appreciative models, and in turn I learned a lot from them! I found a wonderful mature model with a great attitude that I respected and happened into her room one day when she was being trolled and harassed and I tipped her $10. She was so appreciative it almost made me cry.

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ALWAYS say thank you, ALWAYS! No matter what size the tip. Positive reinforcement is good sales as well as good human behavior. Reward the positive and they will want to do it more! These guys need to feel they are receiving some sort of reward for their effort. You never know if the member is broke as fuck and that $1 tip he gave you is hard for him to do but he likes you enough to do it anyway.

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Some guys may tip you small just to test the waters and see if you say thank you first. Make sure you aren’t some entitled spoiled brat. Some guys like that hustle but more often than not they want to see how you react.

You have to remember, not all of these guys are whales. Some of them are just average Joe’s busting their asses to survive and want to spoil a pretty woman, even if spoiling for them is $5 here and there. It does add up! I treat my less generous members with the same courtesy and interactions that I give my whales. You may lose the whales over time (they always end up coming and going – PUN!) but usually the guys that visit you frequently and tip a bit here and there usually stick around for the long haul and there may be a day where the guy that spends less comes in and surprises you and saves your ass.

He may just be cheap – being able to see that comes with time, the cheap one’s all kind of have the same M.O.. I thank them regardless because they didn’t have to tip me a fucking dime, but they did 🙂 I even thank the guys that try to tip $1 to see boobs. I tell them they need to tip more for that, say thank you and then they usually oblige me by tipping the full amount or they stfu and leave.

I’ve had a member that rarely tipped, and when he did it was a few bucks a day and then he came riding into my room with $300 and dropped it on me in 10 minutes. He still does this twice a week for about 2 months now! He said he likes to spoil me because he knows I APPRECIATE it and don’t act like a spoiled brat! Sometimes being nice to the “cheap” guys can pay off…….

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Moral of the story – ALWAYS SAY THANK YOU! Oh, and by the way – THANK YOU for reading my blog!! *kisses*

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Amazon Associates Anti-Sexual Content Discrimination – A Side Rant

Hello again and Happy ______ (insert day of week here)!

So, you may notice all of my Amazon content has been removed from the blog. I used the Amazon Associates program which is an affiliate program to help direct readers to specific products that I was recommending as well as generate a small amount income to help pay for my website hosting for the blog that way I’m not coming out of pocket for it. (Can you blame me?! Who doesn’t love free shit?!)

In February, I got an email from the program stating that they could not access my site. I wrote back shocked because I had pretty good traffic considering how infrequently I had been posting and had never had an issue with accessing my website. After a few back and forth exchanges of me saying “Uh, nope – my site IS working – here is the address again.” and them saying “We can’t see your site.” the communication ended with a very curt response from them stating that the issue was closed and they would no longer respond to my messages.

I figured it may just be an error or a stupid rep on their end so I started a new account and spent many hours creating custom ads and links to product recommendations. A few of you started to use the links to Amazon and had generated a small amount of income for me to use towards the blog (THANK YOU FOR THAT!).

Less than a week ago I received a similar email from Amazon Associates stating that they could not access my blog. I responded pointing out that I was starting to get the impression that it was not them having issues accessing my site and that it was discrimination against my content. I got an email ignoring my suspicions again, yet stating that when I signed up I entered my website address incorrectly. Um, nope. I’m very OCD so I know I checked that fucker at LEAST 4 times for accuracy to ensure it was correct before I submitted it.

I FINALLY had someone respond to me with this:

-Your Site does not qualify for inclusion in the Associates Program because the content promotes unsuitable activity. For example, your Site may contain sexually explicit, violent, libelous, or defamatory materials, or promote discriminatory or illegal activities.

Here comes the rant…… There is no nudity on my blog (at least not yet LOL!), and some references to sex but I am not promoting anything unsuitable. Camming is a LEGAL profession! I know this because I sent the IRS $XX,XXX last year to pay my taxes (after deductions!). If the IRS is taking my money it’s valid and legal! If it’s suitable for the IRS to take my money it’s suitable enough for an affiliate program, right?! Alcohol is legal and is way more destructive than porn LOL. I doubt they would have stated my blog was unsuitable if I was telling people how to be bartenders.

If you are familiar with my blog and are aware of my content you will note it is is WAY less sexually explicit than these books they sell:

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Hrrrrmmmmmhhh, then there is this stuff:

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I guarantee there is more “unsuitable” content on Amazon, I just didn’t feel like digging in any further. Although searching “extreme dildo’s” got me all of those books – LMAO!

Someone please explain to me how the stuff I showed above is more suitable for Amazon to sell but too “unsuitable” for me to use as an affiliate for a blog that informs open minded women (who are more likely to use those toys/read those books) how to make money and keep themselves safe?????

You WILL run into discrimination in the adult industry, even going as far as Amazon not allowing you to use their affiliate program to assist others who are either in the industry or have interest in joining the industry.

I call bullshit Amazon. This is discrimination and “do as I say not as I do”. I’m pulling my account and canceling my Amazon issued Visa now. I spend THOUSANDS of dollars a year on Amazon and am happy to stop doing so because of how hypocritical this policy is.

Straight up bullshit.

 

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A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 2 – SEX

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Welcome to part 2 of the spouse perspective posts about what it is like to be in a relationship with a cammodel. This post dives into the topic of sex. Camming WILL impact your sex life in ways you may not expect and it’s important that your partner is understanding and sympathetic to what you do for a living and how this will affect your sex drive!

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Alright, in the first post I wrote, I talked about some of the simple things you will come to learn if your significant other becomes a cam model. Here I will talk about how this field may or may not affect your personal sex life with said lover.

Right off the bat, sooner or later, your sex life will be affected by being with a cam model. The sex will slow down. Learn to embrace it and accept it. Let’s put the shoes on the other foot for a second. Imagine turning on porn in the morning, whipping out your dick and beating it furiously for the next 6-8 hours with minimal breaks. Now, imagine your wife coming home and mounting you like riding bareback on a horse. Needless to say, your urge for actual sex probably dipped a little that day. You are probably going to be sore and sexually drained. Mentally and physically. Imagine doing this for 5 or 6 days a week. Get the picture?

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It’s like this, if you mowed yards for a living, would you want to come home and mow yours every night as well? Probably not. So if your spouse is thinking about becoming a cam model, this is something you both must be prepared for.

My wife and I are a 4 or 5 times a week couple. Now, with her camming, we have to plan out times for sex more than we ever did. Spontaneity doesn’t exist for us anymore. We are a 1 or 2 times a week couple at the moment. Sure, I’d love to have more sex with her, but I understand the nature of the game. I am completely at ease with it. That is why, again, trust and communication are vital in this area. The two of you must communicate with each other about how this is affecting the both of you. Take time for each other no matter what. Yes, you have to plan out your sex too. Sure, there is still a little spontaneity, but it is sparse.

I can tell you that if you do start to get a little sexually frustrated as a partner to a cam model, you mustn’t hold it in and then jump all over her/him about why you’re not having sex when all he/she does is have cyber sex with strangers all day. It’s not a good approach.

You must openly communicate with each other at all times about when your “you” time is appropriate for the both of you. It’s just something you must learn to accept when thinking about taking this path. Once you do that, you will then begin to realize that your partner isn’t ditching you for random dong and pussy talk all day. She’s just doing a job that pays the bills. When your partner is with you intimately, it is more personal. More involved. And yes, your cam working partner does have to be able to shut off the camming and turn on the real world first.

Camming isn’t a straight parallel line for your cam model partner. My wife can’t just go from a 45 minute private that has her dressed like a secretary that is fucking her boss in a fantasy world, to turning off the computer and pouncing on me in the next room, in the real world. There must be time for a separation from fantasy to reality. You must come to understand this as well and be patient.

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It’s like watching a murderous and gory horror flick and in the middle of it being hit up for sex. Chances are you’ll need a few minutes to get your head back in the game so you can perform at a peak level. Yes, your spouse is talking sex all day, in a fantasy realm that he or she views as a job, but you can’t just come crashing into the cam room with a hard-on and mount her just because she is in the sex industry and you think she’s in the mood. It doesn’t work like that. Your partner must have a little time to separate business from pleasure first. Even though it is in the same field.

Don’t get me wrong, every once in awhile, she’ll have a steamy private that fires her up. It is rare, but it does happen. Then, that’s when some of that spontaneous sex occurs. Honestly, I love when that happens. I look at it as some other dude just paid to have my wife fired up and I reap all the benefits.

That’s the way you must mentally change in order for life with a cam model to flow more smoothly. Turn what your spouse does into a positive for the both of you on your end. Let them talk about their day, let them share. Hell, use some of that as foreplay when the two of you have your time together if that gets the blood flowing. Whatever. Again, if you can take some of this advice I’m sharing with you to heart, it will lead to you having a very harmonious relationship with your camming spouse. Not only that, the money he or she makes from it will be that little cherry on the top. Just some things to think about.

I will be back to talk about more of what to expect if you have a lover who is thinking of camming. Until part 3, take care and have fun!

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How To Avoid UTI’s or Bladder Infections

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One (another!) thing that became new to me once I started camming was Urinary Tract Infections (aka. UTI’s or Bladder Infections). I had never had one before and I didn’t start getting them until I was about a year into camming. I’m a very clean camgirl, which helps, but I have had to basically go OCD on being clean(er) in order to further prevent any more flare ups. Here is what I do to keep my lady bits happy and try to avoid this occurring again:

    • WASH YOUR TOYS!  Every time you use them! For my non-electronic toys I use a diluted (with bottled water) version of Dr. Bronner’s Unscented Castile soap in a spray bottle to wash my toys (under HOT running water!) and then dry them thoroughly with a CLEAN towel. For my electronic toys I use a clean, dry washcloth and toy cleaner spray.
  • PEE AFTER EVERY PRIVATE!  I’m serious! Anytime your stick anything in your vagina or even rub it GO PEE as soon as you can! This will help flush out any bacteria that has gotten into your urethra/urinary tract. Do not hold your bladder for too long – even if you have to log out of Free Chat to do so.No UTI! Avoiding UTI, camgirl, camming
  • DRINK LOTS OF WATER!  I find myself constantly in a conundrum with this one. I’m trying to avoid peeing so I can stay on cam longer but if I don’t drink enough water I end up with a UTI – Grrrrrrr…. I’ve started a schedule to make sure I drink what I need to: 1 bottle first thing when I get up – 1 bottle about 20 minutes before I log off for lunch (1-2 hour break)- 1 bottle 20 minutes before I log off for dinner (1-2 hour break) and then I sip 1 bottle during my night shift so I’m not up all night peeing 🙂 drink water, pee, uti, camgirl
  • CRANBERRY /URINARY SUPPLEMENTS & JUICE: Take a cranberry/urinary health supplement and drink a bottle of cranberry juice before bed. AZO has a wonderful line of urinary related supplements that are absolutely AH_MAZING!
  • PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT IS IN YOUR LUBE! You may very well be using something that is not good for your body or that your skin is sensitive to! Try different lubes to see which are not as irritating to your sensitive girly bits 🙂 Lube reviews are cumming soon! A few of my favorites are below!

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What To Wear on Cam? Wear what works for YOU!

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One of the best things you can do for yourself as a cam model is to just be you If you are a newbie, I know you have been nosing around the sites, watching models and trying to see how this all works. I did the same thing. Obsessively taking mental notes on what the model’s were wearing, what their rooms looked like and how they conducted themselves. If you are a seasoned veteran you are either in there to see if the site is having tech issues, spying on your haters or looking to see what the other models are wearing (I’m guilty still!).

During your research you may notice there are 2 types that stand out the most:
  1. Models with fancy looking rooms wearing fancy lingerie.
  2. Models with normal looking rooms wearing panties and a bra or t-shirt/tank top.

These models all have their own hustle and are doing what works for them. I’m here to encourage you to do what works for you! You may think you will attract bigger spenders with all of the fancy lingerie and expensive heels but I want to let you know that this is not always the truth. Yes, some members prefer that type of model, but you may be surprised at how many of them don’t.

I’m more like #2. Occasionally I’ll wear something fancy, but I NEVER wear heels. Okay, I did once and took them off after 10 minutes. Oddly enough I do best in a tank top and panties, and the occasional nice bra with matching panties set.

When I started out I was trying so hard to be like model number 1 but it just didn’t fit my personality. So much so that a few members pointed it out. The lingerie doesn’t match the girl – LOL! Don’t get me wrong, I will whip out the occasional show stopper lingerie set with garters and shit and my members enjoy it but then I go right back to being me 🙂 No joke, my top 3 highest earning days have been with shitty hair, a tank top or t shirt and panties (I keep those sexy though!).

My main point with this post is to encourage you to do YOU! If you are like model #1 – DO IT! If you are more like model #2 – DO IT! If you are nothing like either of those and are artsy, crass, into cosplay, nerdy, ghetto, laid back AF, whatever –  then do it! JUST DO YOU! You will be somebody’s flavor!Be Yourself, camgirl, wear, model

If you aren’t sure what your style is, try a few and see which one you feel more comfortable with! Your earnings and enjoyment of your shift will tell you everything!

Camming is not just surface appearances! It goes deeper than that! Camming is confidence and you being comfortable with yourself and comfortable with what you are doing. THAT is what makes the money! These guys can sniff out fake and awkward like a shark smelling blood. Don’t cheat yourself by putting up a front!

 

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UTI’s & Camming – Symptoms and Cheap Treatment

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First of all, I am NOT a doctor and am not providing medical advice. I am merely providing you with my experience and perspective on the subject of UTI’s in relation to camming. I have never, ever prior to camming had a UTI. EVER. I have one right now – hooray! Perfect time to blog about this!

Not all cam girls will get UTI’s (Urinary Tract Infections), it just depends on your body and how your body reacts to so much touching, groping, penetration, etc…It’s not always about cleanliness even though it is VERY important to help avoid getting a UTI. More on this  in another post.

It started out with a severe burning feeling upon urination after a long cam day. That sensation wasn’t totally out of the ordinary as I had experienced it pretty frequently after an intense session or toy heavy cam day.

Enter the next morning when I started to pee. It was awful. This time was fucking excruciating – like peeing razor blades or Tabasco sauce. I’m not exaggerating. I seriously started to cry. Then I looked into the toilet and saw a LOT of blood. My period was 2 weeks away but being curious I stuck my finger in my vagina to check anyway. Nothing. Clean as a whistle. Shit. Enter Google.

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I had all of the symptoms of a UTI.

  • Pain upon urination
  • Frequent urination
  • Cloudy urine
  • Foul smelling urine (this is worse than the first pee of the day smell – ugh.)
  • Lower back/abdominal pain. (Dull, consistent cramping with the occasional sharp jab thrown in for good measure – at least for me.)
  • Fever/Chills (This is where I know I let it go too far….)

I figured I could use the “pee tablets” that turned your pee an intensely weird shade of orange and STAINS everything it comes in contact with to get through the day. Having previously used them before multiple times before bed after a busy cam day so I figured this would help. I also took cranberry tablets – AZO products are the BOMB BTW!) and pounded cranberry juice while still being dumb enough to pound my pussy on cam because it was the end of the pay period.

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The next day nothing had changed, it had only worsened. More blood, more pain, and a fever that I couldn’t put on a smiling face and cam through. It was so bad the thought of putting anything near my vagina made me homicidal.

Great. Fuck. So I took the day off and tried the AZO Urinary Pain Relief Tablets. These do work if you have MILD symptoms but if you are full blown fucked up like I was YOU HAVE TO SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION! This has the potential to travel to your kidneys and fuck you up (dialysis/death, etc….) so TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!

I was looking for home remedies to treat this as I think paying $120 to talk to a doctor for 30 seconds so he can write me a script for antibiotics is ludicrous. (AGAIN – I was STUPID and should not have kept putting this off!) While looking up home remedies I stumbled across https://www.mdproactive.com OMFG! Thank you!

I signed up and basically paid $39.95, waited for about 45 minutes to talk to a doctor (they call you!) about my symptoms. He then called in an antibiotic prescription (Cost was $4) to my local pharmacy and BAM. After about 2 days on the antibiotic I was all good again.

 

 

A Spouse/Partner Perspective on Being In A Relationship With Camgirl – Guest Blog – PART 1 – Trust & Communication

Okay ladies (and curious men), I brought my husband in to do a guest blog post for us. I thought it would be really nice to bring into view how being a camgirl MAY (everyone’s situation is different!) affect your partner and your relationship with your partner from their perspective.

This is HIS perspective and we have a very unique relationship which allows for us to enjoy the fruits of my (and his!) open mindedness and willingness to share intimate parts of myself with others to help secure a good future for the both of us moving forward.

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Part 1 

Trust

So, your wife, and or girlfriend, wants to be a cam model, eh?

Well, it’s not a bad deal at all…if you as a spouse are prepared for it.
My wife is a cam model. I know what you’re thinking; how can I let thousands of men and women look at my wife in the most intimate of ways? It’s easy…trust. But, there are some things you should know about being a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend of someone in this industry.
First off, if you are the type of partner that has to check your partners phone, emails, letters from home, whatever, then this is not something that is going to sit well with you and you should make your feelings known. Basically, if you’re not okay with thousands of people seeing your partner buck naked with dildos and lube flying all around the room right from the get-go, it’s not going to get better for you or your feelings about it.
If you are at ease right from the start but only have a little hesitance about how all this works (this is normal), you’re probably going to be just fine with your spouse bouncing on fake dong’s all day for cash. If you can be at ease, which I am, about the love of your life sharing herself with the rest of the world, it can be quite the lucrative adventure for the both of you. It just requires you to get out of your own way and let the money come rolling in. Let’s put it this way. I’m married to a top cam model. We have a bad month if she, say, makes 6 grand for that month of work.
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When she first started doing camming, I was curious as to how this worked and what could be made income wise from it. I was also worried about her safety as well. So when my wife first started this whole thing, I used to sit in the room with her just out of cameras view, sipping on a cold beer while I heard thousands of men carry on a conversation about how bad they wanted to fuck her. I watched her do what she does with me privately on a more amplified level of display. I used to laugh to myself, and with her, about how if that guy that just took her private only knew that her husband was sitting behind the laptop flipping through a magazine while drinking a beer.
After awhile, and after I knew how careful my wife is with our safety earning an income in this field, as well as after I realized how this all worked, I quit going into the room with her. Now the only clue for me to know that she is having a good income day is when I hear moaning and movement coming out of her cam room every five seconds. It’s the sweet sound of the savings account growing a little fatter.
As I mentioned above, trust is the key foundation, just like any relationship for any way of life is, that the two of you must have before venturing into this endeavor. Trust me when I say that your camming partner will see better looking options while camming than you. You must learn to accept that.
She will get hundreds of offers to meet up or even get paid thousands of dollars to just hang out with other men. You have to trust your partner to have her, and your, best interests at heart when these offers are made to her. IT WILL HAPPEN. My wife doesn’t meet any of these men or women. Most cam models do not either. Hopefully, your partner isn’t one of the few that take it outside of the camming world behind your back. That’s why rock sold trust is key here.
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Communication

My wife and I have very good communication. That in itself creates more trust. She will tell me about every offer that she gets to meet, which guys and girls ACTUALLY turn her on (Yes fella’s, most of you couldn’t turn on a light switch. Remember, my wife gets paid to tell you that you’re a sex God), she tells me about the mild and disgusting requests she gets, and so on. She doesn’t hold back when she starts to tell me about her day.

Just so you know, I do not ask. I do not brow beat her about anything. My wife freely talks about her day just like most of us do that work in office’s or wherever. My wife camming and her talking about her day doing it have become so normal to me now that it’s no different if she was a plumber or something. You too will get that way if you have trust, real trust, between the two of you.

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As I mentioned above, again, how can my wife and I allow her to be so exposed to people in the most intimate of ways? Besides trust, the first time my wife cammed it was a Sunday Afternoon. The first hour she cammed, she made one hundred and fifty bucks. This is when I started to notice that this was a legitimate way to earn an income. A damn good one too. I just had to step aside and let her do her thing. When I get home from work each day, my wife out earns me, on shorter shifts, usually 3-4 to 1. All it took was for us to trust one another and the rest has been taking care of itself ever since.
I will have more parts to discuss on this topic coming soon. Like how it affects your sex life and social life, along with some other things that you should be aware of before getting involved in this career path as a partner. Until next time!
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I hope you enjoyed reading my husbands perspective! I know I did but I’m biased LOL! I look forward to his other posts 🙂
It’s very important to provide an outside perspective because camming does and will effect your relationships. You may think going into camming that it shouldn’t have much of an impact but it does. I agree with him 100% about trust and good communication being essential. Those traits are essential to every relationship, however need to be fully present and consistent moreso when a couple has a partner that is a camgirl/cam model (or any type of sex worker!)!

 

Types of Members – The Entitled Financially Well off Asshole

You will encounter many types of guys online while you are camming. They range from the “grey” (member with no funds) that parks in your room constantly and never adds money. To the “whale/unicorn” – most of whom are pretty damn nice and don’t say much oddly enough UNLESS they are the whales that take you private for 2 hours JUST to chat and hang out. They do exist! Then you will get this guy (maybe). I’ve had 3 of these and they are somewhat rare but they do exist. Like unicorns. Unicorn assholes.

I’d like you to meet the Entitled & Financially Well Off Asshole:

There is another type of “whale” that I want to give you a heads up about. This is the guy that starts out hanging out in your room with very little money and tips you a few bucks here and there – running his mouth the whole time. As annoying as these guys are sometimes if you humor them they can become quite lucrative!

They almost always try to start drama between you and another model or member, or they are rude to your other members but nice to you, and you debate getting rid of them. I had one guy do this to me for a few days – he then comes back into my room with almost $900, tips me $50, and then returns a few hours later with $3 to sit and chat and chat and chat. I ALMOST banned him. I actually hit the button to do so but didn’t confirm and let him remain however I started ignoring him a bit. I’m SO GLAD I did not ban him!

He spent almost $3K on me in 3 days after that and continues to spend a pretty decent amount on me a few times a week still, which is why I put up with him. When he pays my car payment in 10 minutes it’s REALLY hard to tell him to fuck off.

Dudes like this guy just LOVE to impress you with their money but are difficult to deal with because they are essentially pains in the ass. They act like the chatty freeloaders, say stupid shit, do mean things to your regulars like take you private after a huge tip from a very old very NICE regular and then laugh about it in private like you think it’s funny too. (Stupid fucker – all you did was piss me off). He then tries to make you work around HIS schedule – asking you to come online when it’s convenient for him, usually at really weird hours. It’s their way of trying to use their money to control. Don’t fall for it. Show him that YOU are in control and not desperate. Inaccessibility can be an advantage. More about that in a future post.

Also, he inundates your message box when you are offline…. Tells you what to wear, asks for free shit in free chat. <- That one REALLY pisses me off because you don’t want to give the cheap assholes in the room anything for free or have them misunderstand that all they have to do is ask for free shit and you will do it. I ALWAYS have to do damage control after this happens. Sometimes for DAYS.

These guys act like they own you because they’ve spent so much money on you. I think that’s the most frustrating part of it. And I NEVER let them have control which just makes them spend more oddly enough…… At least that has been my experience.

You will  likely have a dude like this (or 2 or 3+) that you will have to deal with. Just keep smiling through clenched teeth and take his money honey!

Typical Day on Cam – What To Expect – Part 1

I’m still giggling a little every time I read the title to this post. You can absolutely have a typical day on cam, however, the thing with camming is that everything can change in a matter of seconds. I’ll focus on the more redundant and mundane aspects of a day on cam that you can expect, anticipate and almost set your watch to in this post though.

Free Chat:

Guest: Hi BB – You start typing or saying hello to respond – Guest leaves.

Guest: Hi BB, Hru? (punctuation optional) – You: Great, hru? – Guest: Better now that I see you (or something excruciatingly similar) *shoots self in the face*. After about the 10th time of this you will become visibly annoyed when they say it unless you have really good “poker face”.

Guest: Show me ___ and I’ll tip/take you private/exclusive. This one pisses me off to no end and they almost always get a lecture on being a cheap asshole.

Guest: ASS/TITS/FEET/DO SOMETHING BB (Hello NEVER comes before this – they just come in and say this shit without so much as an introduction.)

Guest: Where are you from BB? Where do you live BB? (Why? Do you think I’m going to actually meet some faceless guy that is perusing a camsite with $0.15 in his account with an appallingly uncreative username referring to his massive penis?)

Guest: Make me hard BB (Well YOUR cock is in YOUR hands so how the fuck is this my responsibility in free chat – UGH!)

Guest: runs mouth (or fingers in this case I guess) filling up your chat box with boring nonsense and never tips you or takes you private.

Guest: (insert vulgar dirty talk publicly – tells sex story publicly) You: Can we talk about this/that in private? Guest: leaves or just keeps fucking talking.

Private/Paid Chat:

Guest: Takes you into paid chat with 1-3 minutes worth of funds without warning. You get 15 seconds into private and he starts demanding you show your pussy or cram a toy in your vagina immediately. Leaves 40 seconds into paid chat after clearing out an active and actually interesting chat room.

Guest: Pussy now BB You: 

Guest: Faster BB

Guest: Takes you private with 5-15 minutes worth of funds and 5 minutes in you are juggling 3 dildos (one hanging out of your mouth held by your lips because you are out of hands and you are annoyed enough you are gnawing on the tip of it and hoping he doesn’t notice),  one in your pussy and one in the other hand while pinching your nipples simultaneously, wiggling your ass, moaning his name and waving your feet at the camera because he has a foot fetish too. Cue circus music…..

Right. In. The. Feels.

Guest: Asks for something against site rules. You say no. He keeps pushing the envelope. You 5 times out of 10 have to ban his ass so YOU don’t get into trouble, and the other 5 they just leave.

Guest: Says nothing. Absofucking-lutely nothing. Could have anywhere from 1 minute to 2 hours worth of funds. Doesn’t say a damn thing or respond to questions so you just go into “auto-whore” mode and do the usual routine because you have no idea what in the fuck he wants/is thinking/or if he’s even watching you. This could go on for 3 minutes to 1 hour and 45 minutes (this has actually happened to me – asked him to type hello every few minutes or so to let me know he was there but his hands were busy).

Well?

Guest: You have a super nice session and towards the end or partway through he starts talking about meeting. You politely redirect the conversation/bluntly tell him no/keep dildoing ignoring the chat box and he will NOT STFU. 

I KNOW I am missing some here so expect a part 2 LOL.